The first one was 20 years

The next was 10

The last one was almost 25

The question is

Should I even be looking for love again

The reality is I wouldn’t even know where to begin

Is there a list that describes all the acceptable traits someone should have?

Or do you create your own and tick them off when one is found?

Things like

– a kind and gentle heart for sure

– someone whose eyes sparkle and twinkle when I walk through the door

– someone that makes you laugh until you cry (I really miss that for sure)

– when you’re with them your heart can rest because you are safe and secure

– someone that will love me for me, because this is as good as I get

The more I write I find I am almost describing me

I think I have found the answer to my question

Maybe I should be in love with me